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Redefining Support in the ChemSex Community
Y'all, this conversation with Andrew and Jordan from Canada absolutely shattered everything we think we know about recovery and support.
Their work represents a radical departure from the shame-based, one-size-fits-all approach that has dominated addiction treatment for decades. As Jordan beau...
Jul 24, 2025
addiction
chemsex
crystal methamphetamine
harm reduction
lgbtq
Why Do I Proscrastinate?
I focus most of my time helping men in early recovery who are trying to stop engaging in chemsex.
But, the longer I am in this industry, the more I recognize the need to also help those who have been living meth-free for a considerable amount of time, who are asking, "What now?".
Life after me...
Jul 21, 2025
addiction
chemsex
lgbtq
procrastination
recovery
Breaking the Silence of Chemsex
Alexander's story reveals the difference between those who can navigate substance use safely and those who cannot. This often comes down to a mysterious internal voice - what he describes as "luck" but what we might better understand as intuitive self-awareness. This voice whispers warnings wh...
Jul 17, 2025
addiction recovery
chemsex
crystal methamphetamine
harm reduction
Everyone Else is Partying, But I Can't
It's mid-July, and your Instagram feed looks like a highlight reel of everything you used to think you were missing.
Shirtless men at circuit parties in Mykonos.
Pride celebrations that stretch from Thursday to Tuesday.
Festival lineups that make my former party-self salivate with envy.
And h...
Jul 14, 2025
addiction
chemsex
crystal methamphetamine
lbgtq
recovery
Turning Your Pain Into Purpose
Ben Kaye's story demonstrates that recovery isn't just about stopping substance use—it's about transforming your pain into purpose and your experience into expertise.
As a therapist with lived experience in chemsex recovery, Ben has spent years building bridges between the underserved and the sy...
Jul 10, 2025
addiction recovery
chemsex
lgbtq
methamphetamine
Why You Do What You Don't Want To Do
It can feel maddening when you are trying to quit using meth.
Each day, each hour, each second feels like you are a different version of yourself.
You don't want to use, you want to use, you hate meth, you will stop nothing until you have it.
You have a stellar day of feeling happy and accom...
Jul 07, 2025
addiction
lgbtq
methamphetamine
recovery
Sexual Reintegration AfterMeth
Sexual recovery after methamphetamine addiction is one of the most complex yet transformative aspects of healing.
As Mell McCracken, a leading expert in chemsex recovery, reminds us: "Sex is never an emergency, especially in sexual recovery."
This journey requires deep self-reflection, patience...
Jul 03, 2025
addiction recovery
chemsex
lgbtq
recovery
Fuck Like a Porn Star (AfterMeth)
Sexual recovery after meth addiction isn't just about abstaining from substances—it's about fundamentally reimagining your relationship with intimacy, pleasure, and connection.
Jayson Parker's journey from religious shame through addiction to sexual liberation offers a roadmap for anyone seeking...
Jun 26, 2025
addiction
addiction recovery
chemsex
sexual reintegration
Letting Go AfterMeth
In the depths of despair, a sobbing, snotty, wailing mess. I cried out to the Universe:
"Please take this from me!"
I was in the midst of a horrid come-down. I was deep in my "Tee-motions," as I used to call them.
I could have won the Oscar for this one. I had thrown myself on the floor, face b...
Jun 23, 2025
addiction
addiction recovery
crystal methamphetamine
letting go
Reinventing Yourself AfterMeth
Evan's story demonstrates the possibility of complete life transformation after crystal meth addiction.
As a chemistry professor and drag queen who rebuilt his entire identity in a new city, Evan's journey offers a practical roadmap for anyone seeking to reinvent themselves in recovery.
His emph...
Jun 19, 2025
addiction
addiction recovery
crystal methamphetamine
lgbtq
Working With Your Energy AfterMeth
From the AfterMeth Podcast - Episode with Craig Bricado
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Craig's story reminds us that recovery isn't just about stopping substance use - it's about learning who we are beyond the substances, beyond the stories w...
Jun 12, 2025
addiction
chemsex
energy management
lgbtq
recovery
People-Pleasing and Meth Use
Him: "You into being a dom? I'm a f----t sissy."
Me: rolling my eyes, "Yeah, I'm into that. You got stuff with you, right?"
During my active meth use, I would pretend to be into whatever the guy wanted in exchange for drugs and companionship.
I was dishonest and transactional. Typical people ...
Jun 09, 2025
addiction
crystal methamphetamine
lgbtq
people pleasing
queer
recovery
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